We all face conflict in our lives, and most of us seek to resolve these relationship issues peacefully. But peacemaking is not a natural instinct — it is a skill which we must learn.

According to authors Ken Sande and Tom Raabe in their book Peacemaking for Families, the following 12 principles will help you mold your children into successful peacemakers. Through teaching your children these skills, modeling peacemaking behavior to them, and giving your children plenty of social interaction to practice their skills, you will prepare them for successful relationships.